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I’m going to start 2009 by saying something controversial

Rating girls from 1 to 10 is stupid.

Let me tell you my reasons for thinking this.

Looks are personal – something I’ve noticed is that the more choice guys have with women, the more varied their tastes.  When I’m out with the other PUATraining instructors, rarely do we agree on who the hottest girl is in the room.  We’re all confident enough to express our own preferences – some like tall girls, some like short – some like cute looking rock chicks – others like ice cold Russians. But what we all agree on is that we want to spend out time approaching the girls that we find most attractive.  I don’t think I’d enjoy the time we spend together half as much if we were all chasing the same girls!

Rating women on their looks reinforces a load of the bad stuff that probably stopped you from having choice with good looking women in the first place.  So she’s a 9 by her looks? Are you a 9? What about all the other things that makes you a great guy?  How about if she can’t even be bothered to get a job and would rather sit at home all day – is she still a 9?  What if she’s a 7 but you get on amazingly and she has the best personality that you’ve ever met – are you somehow not aiming highly enough – should you chuck her and date a 9 who bores you?  

Come on guys – this is about CHOICE with women. Pick up should be about broadening your horizons, giving you options that you didn’t have before. And this is about as limiting as you can get. 

We need to start viewing women as the complete package – you spend time bettering yourself right?  You want to make yourself a better person and grow and develop. Does she?  So factor that into the equation – and the result of that equation shouldn’t be a number from 1 to 10 - it should be either you like her or you don’t.

It doesn’t matter what your friends think.  It doesn’t matter what people on the internet think.   All that matters is that you’re approaching the woman that you want to approach and that you’re giving yourself the greatest opportunity to meet someone who’s going to rock your world.

Happy New Year Everyone

I’d be really happy to hear your thoughts on this.

On a planet of the lower triad, you will have many more evil things happening than on a planet of the upper triad. Earth is a lower triad planet. I’m hearing a lot of people talk about the credit crunch, the New World Order, the orchestrating of events designed to create panic like a mathmatical equation, and I think it’s bad yes but at the same time I know that there will always be bad things taking place on a lower triad planet.

I use a system called the six umbrellas, each umbrella is an emotion that can encompass all forms of emotion related to it. There is the pleasure triad, which is the upper triad, then there is the pain triad, which is the lower triad.

This planet and the people on it operate from the lower triad. The whole planet and its consciousness on the whole is massively lower triad. It’s all very well complaining and all that stuff but at the end of the day, people think that they are powerless against all this politics stuff, but there is billions of people on this planet and only a very small fraction of those people are calling the shots, and they are managing to control by eliciting the lower triad in the rest of the population.

Living in the lower triad makes you stupid, angry, sad, and afraid. That’s what makes you powerless. The human brain is extremely powerful and everyone has one given to them for free by mother nature, and to surpress its power the owner is being forced to live in the lower triad where the brain doesn’t work so well.

In the upper triad things are very different. I wish I was born on an upper triad planet, oh well maybe next time. Or perhaps people will realize within my lifetime what is going on and start intercepting the lower triad elicitations and counter elicit with upper triad elicitations.

You’re gonna hear people talk about how we are controlled by the banks, and by all kinds of blah blah blah, but actually, really, we are controlled by elicitations. Most of the hard work is done by us, you see once we are habitually living in the lower triad we ourselves with our own elicitations will keep us there. It’s a very efficient system, don’t be thinking for one second that it takes gallons of energy and up keep, it really doesn’t. Similarly, the upper triad wouldn’t require gallons of energy either, if we were habitually in the upper triad it would maintain itself just like the lower triad is maintaining itself now.

I heard that only 0.01% of people are truly evil, like genetically evil, the rest have just been lead astray by the 0.01%. Man that 0.01% is doing well but I don’t know how long it can go on for because 99.9% of the evil people aren’t actually evil and when they realize this and snap out of it, that puny little 0.01% is gonna be in deep shit.

Just a quick one…. I have a couple of weeks off from my busy timetable so I will try and post a little more as I don’t always manage to get to share as much as I would like guys

One of the many objectives a PUA has is to get a girl ‘in state’ as when a girl is in state it makes seduction and escalation much more rapid. The better you become at state control the less time and effort you will need. People will not see you ‘gaming’ because you will be too fast! It is called being seductive. As we all know people use many different ways to get her in the right state. Might be through NLP, kino routines, stories, a ‘YES LADDER’ etc. etc. there are so many ways. Some guys even tell a girl what they find attractive in a women or use a 3rd person and loan behold the girl then starts behaving in that way. A natural uses his frame and aura to get her in the zone without any tricks. The way he talks, touches her, eye/lip movement, smile, you name it! He has the touch.

So the place where I believe you will find girls in a positive frame?

If they have just finished watching the film ‘THE YES MAN’

Serious, go on the pick up outside there because whole film is like one big Yes ladder. People are in an adventureous state and it may not last long! Play on the sense of being open to new experiences or people. I have a feeling this is going to become a popular Day2 dvd choice.

Let me know results

Take it easy guys

Pete
P.S. Hopefully you will run into HBs who have seen that film oppose to some deep Russian tragegy….. But in fact that will be cool too because they will need comfort. In fact I’ve found a cinema is a great place because people tend to feel very open and emotional in one way or another as they have been on a journey. So depending on what film they have seen, you will have to adapt the angle you are coming in at. It is great fun!

It’s now time to award some prestigious titles to the people commenting who I have taken note of. Every now and again I shall post the latest awardees and their new titles. It’s sort of like cub scouts where you collect badges, there are no badges but the titles are officially awarded by me. My decisions as to who gets a title and why has to do with how well they are responding to my teachings. I can tell how well they are developing by their subcommunication and energy.

Here are the titles:

1. Stuff, who through dilligent reading of blog posts, commenting on those posts, thinking, and postulating, has earned the title of ‘genius’. Title awarded by Alistair of PUA Training, 27 December 2008.

2. Mike, who through sheer determination practicing the art of thinking intelligently, has earned the title of ‘intellectual’. Title awarded by Alistair of PUA Training, 27 December 2008.

3. Craig, who through being highly motivated and motivational, has earned himself the proud title of ‘leading expert on the science of motivation’. Title awarded by Alistair of PUA Training, 27 December 2008.

4. Joker, who cracked the hidden codes and messages contained in my posts, has earned the title of ‘extremely talented individual’. Title awarded by Alistair of PUA Training, 27 December 2008.

Well done to all of you, and have fun using your titles as often as you like, you’ve earned it, and if anyone takes issue with you about your title simply print out your certificate which is basically this post.

Earlier this week I heard off a colleague of mine at PUA training that apparently he has 3 new ways to test if someone is mad. When I heard I laughed, as I cannot agree more and I have pretty much the same one’s……… So here they are, very simple and very effective

1) Do they have friends, hobbies and a strong social circle away from the PUA community?

2) Do they have direction and ultimate ambitions that are more important than becoming the ‘The World’s No.1 PUA?’

3) Do people say more positive than negative things about them in general?

If the answer is NO to ALL 3 QUESTIONS then sadly I regret to say you may well be stark raving mad and utterly insane. You could well be a danger to society and to yourself and should seriously consider booking a trip to Zürich and invest in some euthanasia. You could buy some pickup material to read on the plane though!

Pete

P.S. Always try to keep a sense of humour regarding pick up and my posts. BTW did anyone spend most of 25^thDecember reading and thinking about pick up? That could be a 4th……..

Have a Merry Christmas!

Much Love

OK dudes, this post is about how game naturally progesses for a serious pickup artist. The game starts out macroscopic and then gradually becomes smaller and smaller until it becomes infinitely microscopic. It can be frustrating for the experienced seducer to have to teach a complete beginner, because has to teach the macroscopics as the beginner just isn’t ready for the small details yet and can’t even appreciate them.

The experienced seducer does all of the macroscopic stuff instinctively, and is beginning to do the microscopic stuff instinctively as well, and is still looking to refine and tighten his game up even more by looking for even smaller details to fine tune, practice, and internalize to the instinctive level.

Learn to discern between the macroscopic and the microscopic, for instance being ‘well groomed’ is a macroscopic change. Ollie is someone who has internalized the macroscopic aspect of fashion and is functioning in the realm of microscopic details, this seperates him from the crowd, but sometimes people can’t see or appreciate this. If you’re a complete mess and you haven’t even got the macroscopic aspect of grooming down, going and seeing Ollie, who operates right down to the microscopic level, can be a bewildering experience. The same goes when a beginner takes training from a seducer who operates at these deeper levels.

So many students can’t even open, let alone do all the advanced stuff, not being able to open has to do with not having self control and not understanding oneself. Knowing yourself leads to being able to control yourself, being able to control yourself leads to being able to control others. Make no mistake, game is about control, seduction is when you bend someone to your will. Get out of this game if you can’t face up to that fact, because it seriously isn’t for you if that is the case.

Some of the best seducers of all time have no fame in the seduction community, but they have a lot of fame in the spiritual development community, that they routinely seduced women using their highly advanced degrees of self control and self understanding, was simply brushed under the rug. While I won’t name names, I certainly won’t brush it under the rug, I’ll openly state it, spiritual development leads to the ability to seduce to the highest levels possible, if you choose to use it for that.

Hey guys, while I know the topic of attraction has all but been beaten to death, It’s important that you have a simple, yet clear, understanding on how it works.

The first question to ask is what IS attraction?  I’ve found it to be two key things.  The first being Value, which every pick up method and style uses, and Investment, something pointed out to me by AFC Adam.   The more value you create for yourself, and the more a girl Invests in you, the more she becomes attracted.  Therefore the most simple forumla possible for attraction is….

Value –> Investment –> Attraction

Under this simple formula there are only three ways that men fail to generate attraction. The first is by not creating value or investment, in which case you will be met with indifference.  The second is by demonstrating value, but not getting the girl to invest.  When this happens you become what’s called a dancing monkey, or entertainer.  You offer her all this value and she has to do nothing for it.  Often men who do this will end up in the friendship zone or become an orbiter, if even that much.  The final mistake is trying to get to much investment for lack of value.  This will again lead to indifference because why would she work for something she doesn’t value? 

The art of game is to create and give as much value as possible, honestly know how much investment you can get from the girl for that value, and then structure ways to get the investment.  Understanding this basic truth will cut to the heart of any game issue you can possibly have. 

When it comes to generating value there are two forms, generic value and elicited value.  Generic value is what most people in the community learn such as DHV stories that trigger universal attraction switches, having a sense of style, creating a fun and playful vibe, generating social proof and preselection, and having alpha characteristics such as good body language.  Elicited value is a bit harder but also more powerful.  It involves eliciting and recognizing what a girl specifically values, and then giving or demonstrating that.  For example, if you saw two girls who wanted their picture taken, and you offered to take it, you just provided a very light form of elicited value.  Also building commonalities offers elicited value or providing value that you learn through qualification, such as learning she loves sushi and telling her of the best sushi place around.  Here you can see how qualification not only helps with investment but also in creating value.

Investment is largely done through qualification and compliance testing.  By qualifying the girl, and gaining compliance, you give her opportunities to begin working for you which starts attraction.  The real trick is figuring out how large of a qualification hoop you can use, one that she will comply to, in order to get the most investment for your value.  If she qualifies or invests easily then it’s time to start larger hoops.  However, if she doesn’t comply, then we need to make our hoops smaller for less investment while simultaneously creating more value.  Operant Conditioning is also used throughout qualification and compliance testing.  We reinforce positive behavior, that is behavior leading to investment, with more value and rewards.  We punish negative behavior, or behavior where she wont invest, by breaking rapport.  The investment to try and gain can come in a multitude of forms.  It can include the girl spending money, the effort she puts in for you, the time she spends with you, how physical she gets, and how much she invests emotionally and mentally in you. 

While there’s more to pick up then simply attraction, such as kino, comfort, logistics, inner game, frame control, and calibration, to name a few….really remember this since it’s the heart of attraction and will answer most problems.

Hope this helps, and if anyone has any questions for future posts then please put them here and I’ll do my best to answer them for you.

-Jarett aka Psych

In the high jump you have a set of rules, for instance you’re not allowed to saw off some of the bar, wear stilts, use springy shoes, wear roller blades and use a ramp, use a pole to volt over it (different sport), use a step ladder, etc. It’s a sport with rules, but those rules are made up for the sake of the game to make it more interesting, challenging, competitive, and fair.

If you take out the rules, you have 2 good options, option number 1 is to think of tricky ways around the problem, such as the ones described above. In my opinion though, nothing would be better than simply being 5 times bigger and stepping over it. That’s what improving yourself does, it makes you bigger, then the women just become a joke, whereas before you needed all tricks and BS to seduce them. Working on yourself and making yourself less susceptible to injuries to your self esteem, amongst other things, gives you ‘the aura’. It ain’t a trick when you have ‘the aura’, it’s like being 5 times the size and just stepping over the stupid bar that you once thought was a big deal.